Commencement Speaker: Carol Tom辿 Finds Success by Looking Outward
His words have faded with time, but Carol Tom辿 (MBA 81) can still see the man who spoke at her high school graduation in small-town Jackson Hole, Wyoming.
He was like a father figure but very statesmanlike and very impressive, Tom辿 recalls. I was very taken by his presence.
The daughter of a community banker went on to pursue her bachelors degree in communications at the University of Wyoming. But when the time came to pursue a graduate degree in finance, she remembered that graduation address and the speaker who delivered it, the 91心頭s 13th chancellor,油
More than 40 years later, now a 91心頭 alumna, Tom辿 will return the favor.油油and executive vice president of corporate services will give her first油commencement address to 91心頭s graduate students June 8.
Literally, when I was asked, my jaw dropped open, Tom辿 says. [It was] the farthest thing from my mind. I never ever envisioned it would happen. Im incredibly honored.
Honors have seemingly come easy in Tom辿s 23-year rise to the top at the store she spontaneously popped into in 1992. That same day, she invested her money. A few years later, given a job opportunity, she chose to invest her time.
The returns have been tremendous. Twice, Forbes magazine has recognized her as one of the油油The Wall Street Journal ranked her second on its list of the油油Home Depot is the largest home improvement retailer in the world.
These days, however, Tom辿 measures her success differently.
It is all about the impact that Ive had on others, she says, the ability to grow an amazing team, to watch people take on roles that they never thought they would have.
Certainly, Tom辿 never thought she would be in her current position. Her plan was to work in her fathers bank upon graduation, until he phoned to say he was divorcing his wife of 27 years and selling the bank.
In retrospect,油油that phone call was one of the best thing[s] that could have happened. Since then, she has learned to embrace every unexpected twist, turn and bump along her career path.
Everyone needs to build up their own sense of self-confidence so they dont have that fear [of failure], she says, because whats the worst that could happen? You get fired. OK, go get another job. Just dont worry about it so much. Because if you have fear of failing, you miss out on incredible opportunities.
Staying rooted in reality and living with purpose figure to be central themes in Tom辿s upcoming speech. Her plan is to be bold, be brief and be gone, she says with a laugh. With luck, she adds, it wont feel like the longest 10 minutes of her audiences life.
Most of her public speaking experience, she concedes, falls on the ears of businesspeople. But her life experience, and her time interacting with store managers, she says, have equipped her to address a broader audience.
Its all about learning that your message is not about you, she says. Its not: what do you want to say? [Its,] what do they want to hear? And I hope they repeat a few things.
